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Why Smart People Repeat the Same Relationship Patterns
Monday, 11 May 2026 · 20:00
About this event
This webinar is for thoughtful, self-aware men and women who are doing the work — yet still find themselves stuck in the same painful relationship cycles.
You may have read the books, listened to the podcasts, even tried therapy or coaching, and still notice that:
- You attract (or become) emotionally unavailable partners
- Conflict either escalates fast or disappears into silence
- You crave closeness but pull away when it arrives
- You’re tired of being “the strong one” and don’t know how to soften
This isn’t because you’re failing.
It’s because old survival patterns may still be shaping how you relate — quietly and automatically.
And patterns can change.
In this grounded, reflective session, we’ll explore:
- Why awareness alone doesn’t stop self-sabotage in love
- How the nervous system and subconscious drive attraction and attachment
- Why patterns repeat even when you “know better”
- What shifts when emotional safety is rebuilt from the inside out
This isn’t a motivational talk or a list of techniques.
It’s a space to understand what’s been shaping your relationships — and how those patterns begin to loosen.
You don’t need to be in a relationship to attend.
Just open, honest curiosity.
Free to attend. No pressure.
Speakers
Julie Boddy — Super Organizer
Who this is for
Thoughtful, self-aware men and women looking to understand their relationship patterns.
You may have read the books, listened to the podcasts, even tried therapy or coaching, and still notice that:
- You attract (or become) emotionally unavailable partners
- Conflict either escalates fast or disappears into silence
- You crave closeness but pull away when it arrives
- You’re tired of being “the strong one” and don’t know how to soften
This isn’t because you’re failing.
It’s because old survival patterns may still be shaping how you relate — quietly and automatically.
And patterns can change.
In this grounded, reflective session, we’ll explore:
- Why awareness alone doesn’t stop self-sabotage in love
- How the nervous system and subconscious drive attraction and attachment
- Why patterns repeat even when you “know better”
- What shifts when emotional safety is rebuilt from the inside out
This isn’t a motivational talk or a list of techniques.
It’s a space to understand what’s been shaping your relationships — and how those patterns begin to loosen.
You don’t need to be in a relationship to attend.
Just open, honest curiosity.
Free to attend. No pressure.
Speakers
Julie Boddy — Super Organizer
Who this is for
Thoughtful, self-aware men and women looking to understand their relationship patterns.
Who this is for
Thoughtful, self-aware men and women looking to understand their relationship patterns.
Who is speaking
J
Julie Boddy
Super Organizer
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Monday, 11 May 2026
20:00
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